So my sister is engaged. Or married. Or dating. Or single. I really have no idea. I woke up this morning to the whiney sound of her voice crying over the telephone to one of her newly "single" friends.
"You're single now, that means you can do ANYTHING you want, let's celebrate."
"...bla bla bla..."
"Well apparently I'M single now TOO!"
All of this was said to piss off her husband/boyfriend/whatever who was laying in the bed next to her. (He doesn't give a shit, he's just with her cause she's paying off his massive credit card debt.)
Oh love... what a beautiful thing.
Everyone in this town is crazy. Everyone I know is crazy. All of the 20 somethings seem to act like this. Is there no self respect left in this world. Is love just some form of prostitution nowadays? Is it all about the money?
Why would you ever stay with someone who treats you like shit? It's like nobody realizes that happiness in love IS NOT a myth. It's not the fucking Holy Grail. It's attainable. And it's real.
The first step to achieve this is breaking up with your piece of shit boyfriend/girlfriend. IT'S NOT THAT HARD. Call them, text them, write it in a letter, do it face-to-face. Who cares, as long as you get rid of the sleezebag.
The second step is deciding that you're just not gonna put up with the bull anymore. You have to realize that it's honestly better to be alone than have a life-sucking parasite stuck to your side all the time. Being alone isn't all that bad. Remember back in kindergarden? Were you alone then? Were you happy? Yes. Bam. Problem solved.
And the third step is finding someone who is gonna treat you like the king/queen that you are. This is the hardest step. Good people are hard to find, but it's possible. And if you can't find that wonderful person, then enjoy the loneliness. Not joking. Learn to love yourself. When you love yourself, being alone is actually pretty damn fun.
Cheers!
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