Good Things Come to Those Who've Been Cheated On, Bad Things Come to Those Who Cheat

It has come to my attention that my low-down, dirty-rotten, scumbag, cheater of an ex-boyfriend is having a pretty rough go.

Since we'd gotten together, roughly three years ago, I'd gotten him $1000.00 out of debt, and a few thousand out of the hole. I took him out of his parents house and away from the drugs and alcohol. He was completely self-sufficient and had a pretty decent job. And to top it all off, I'd helped him get into college.

Now, seven months after the break-up, he's over $20,000 in debt. Moving back in with his parents and he's balls deep in drugs and alcohol. He has no job and no prospects. He also dropped out of college and has no direction in life...

The sad thing is, I'm doing and feeling better than I ever did when I was with him.

He was the one that cheated and fucked everything up... but I still can't help but feel bad for the stupid twat. I guess that's what separates the good guys from the bad guys.

I guess the moral of the story is, cheaters never prosper... Well sometimes they do, but is it really worth the risk?

Boyfriends and Their Friends

So when a boy meets a girl and they start dating eventually it's gonna come to the point when it's time to introduce them to the friends.  It's inevitable, unless you wanna ditch all of your friends and that's usually a no-no.  Now this introduction can be a wonderful thing, but sometimes it's a complete disaster and that's pretty much where I'm at right.

I met an amazing guy.  The most amazing I've ever come across, but he's got a little baggage; his friends are complete assholes.  None of them have girlfriends and it's not hard to guess why.  Their favorite passtime is drinking and smoking weed; they do it everyday, all the time.  No joke.  They're stuck up.  I don't mean they sail yachts and wear smoking jackets, I mean they don't talk to people who aren't in their social scene.  I've been with this guy for 8 months and his friends collectively have maybe said 5 words to me.  They're obnoxious.  One of his best friends takes steriods and roid-rage seems to be his middle name.

His friends are a little off to say the least.  But maybe it's not always a bad thing that when you and your partners friends don't get along.  Maybe your partner will realize that he/she has outgrown his/her high school pals.  But maybe not.

When it all boils down to it, you just have to decide whether or not this person is worth putting up with the obnoxious friends that they're probably going to be inviting to your wedding.  If you're questioning your choice, then maybe they're not.  When they're worth it, you'll know for certain.

Cheers!